1. THE HEART OF INTIMACY

         • Introduction

         • Language of Love; Goodwill Umbrella

         • Levels of Learning

         • Stages of Relationship

         • Three Hopes, Three Fears

         • Relationship Road Map; Logic of Love

         • Communication Styles

         • Invitation Rule

         • Daily Temperature Reading

         • Good Talking, Good Listening, Empathic Listening

         • PAIRS Talking Tips

         • Love Bank and Caring Behaviours

         • Section Review

2. CONSTRUCTIVE CONFLICT

         • Emotional Stages of Engagement

         • Dirty Fighting

         • The Emotional Jug

         • Emptying the Emotional Jug

         • Fair Fight for Change

         • Time-Out Tip

         • Fight Style Profile

         • Fight Results Profile

         • Coaching Guidelines

         • Fair Fight Checklist

         • Relationship Agreement

         • Section Review

3. EMOTIONAL LITERACY

         • Love Knots

         • Untangling Love Knots

         • Powergram / Decision Making

         • Emotional Allergies

         • Confiding an Emotional Allergy

         • Transforming the Loop

         • PAIRS Essential Tool-kit

         • Preventative Maintenance

         • Closing Go-Around